Most parents on children\'s food and clothing care very comprehensive, but few take care of their mental and emotional development. Show children clothes, which are usually decided by adults wear every day, never sought the views of the child, children express their views on adults does not listen. Induced by some parents think that children will note clothing vanity should try, and these ideas and practices right?
Blindly accept take
Preschool is a very important period in everyone\'s life, it may decide to affect the lives of people\'s lives. Psychologists believe that young people\'s mental disorders, such as fear, loneliness, depression, aggression, dependent on narcotic drugs, as well as violations of are associated with early childhood, and parents and guardians of their children in early childhood education and attitudes of a great relationship. Every morning when we pulled up her child, ask not of it we think that a beautiful comfortable clothes when on the child, ever notice that the child\'s psychological needs and feelings? Children were asked to obedient and submissive, dependent, repressed feelings of education grew up, how can grow up to be independent of the mental health, self-esteem and competitive people?
Children to decide what to wear
Scientists think that 3 years old children have begun to have some of their own understanding, with the \"self awareness\", at this time should begin to consciously cultivate their independence, gradually give children some autonomy. Although such as children\'s clothing is bought by parents, but is the child of the right of, by the freedom of children to wear, it can make children feel their elders about their love, adults respect children reinforced the power of pride, responsibility, self-confidence is enhanced. Let the child decide what to wear today, but also cultivate their ability of daily life, parents can give children dress explain some common sense, such as select clothing according to weather conditions, how to mix color of clothing, style, socks, small accessories to be coordinated, knowledge that children can gain a lot of useful life.
What baby stubborn wearing the wrong
Dress the baby after option, there may be trouble: the child must be wearing and weather not phase-contrast clothing, advised not to listen to, what should I do?
First of all, parents should know, child psychology, this is normal, they sometimes want to find out exactly how far to go on one thing. So when the adults do not worried angry patiently clarify why shouldn\'t wear this dress, also let the children speak out a certain reason to wear this dress, when reason can accept parents can give. All this according to the wishes of the child to wear even if does not work, and let the teachers, aunts, neighbors pointed out that the children\'s an error. Children pay attention to their image in the eyes of outsiders, be made immediately to correct. Never scold children or hard by the impulse of the moment let the children put on he is unwilling to wear clothes.
