In recent years, psychologists, physiologists, and psychoanalysis, education on infants of an in-depth study of the consciousness. At present, children, children from the cradle to adolescence of psychological development are generally divided into Oral stage, Anal stage, the penis of worship and quiet period (latent period) in four phases.
Oral stage: baby\'s lips and oral cavity are the intense pleasure of the site, lips feel extremely keen, while it and the mother\'s nipple exposed, baby will feel extremely happy. Modern medicine through a variety of instruments testing, you can see the fetus in utero sucking fingers, when the baby was sucking show happiness and satisfaction is obvious. When the child is found can give them a pleasant mouth, his fingers and can get things and so on were put into the mouth, even to eat, will also give them a pleasant feeling. This pleasant feeling should not be deprived. Of course, it is worth noting that is something the children in his mouth must be clean, safe.
Anal stage: children in about one and a half years will enter this stage. During this period, excretion of body main areas of activity into a child happy. It has been observed that a girl about the age in urine often themselves laugh, maybe the vulva due to voiding of pleasure which, men and children, to pay more attention when passing water caused by the actual actions of pleasure. Happy parents patiently, to train them, rude, impatient method causes the child to feel his body and all other features are horrible, despicable, on adult sexuality will see after evil, formation of abnormal psychology of sexual repression. Frustration during this period, leads to stubborn forces and rigid character, manifested in life untidy, incoherence or even destructive.
Penis worship period: as body of development, about three aged yihou, children will found body feeling best by of Department is genital official, child care period is people of life in the second a fierce changes of period, is child care curiosity strong period, is children tried to independent of stage, however is almost total to was parents suppressed, prohibited or punishment of stage, dang children playing own of ears, and toe Shi, mother will laugh with told father said: \"you see he that small shayang! \"But when a child is touching their sex organs, many parents will face reprimand from the Board said:\" no! \"Parents this fuss, opposite attitudes will cause a child more interested. From childhood, children develop a sense of sin to sex organ. However, most parents are not aware of this, the education of parents put their own childhood also taught exactly transferred the original packet to the next generation, in fact, children need our guidance than ever. Parents need to tolerate and respect for children\'s curiosity, not ashamed to talk about sex organs of name and explain the problem, like speak like other organs, in a calm and tell him the names of various parts of the body so that he knows this is his own essential and useful parts of the body. When children tell him when touching sex organs, there are bacteria on the hands, like not sucking fingers, not rubbing the eyes not to touch it, and telling stories, and his methods, such as transferring children\'s attention and interest of the game, touch is gradually reduced to sex organs of a child.
Of course, sexual education, sexual knowledge is not necessary to strike out, can not exceed their development phase will tell them a lot of things.
Quiet period (latent period): children grow up to school age, as their knowledge of social networking and social scales, children\'s interest extends outward to other interest in mystery and knowledge. When the children because of shyness, tend not to take the initiative to ask questions of those afraid of being accused and laugh at problems, but must try to meet their sexual curiosity, parents and children is the responsibility of a two-way exchange of information and communication, properly guide them to see some intellectual books, guide to warn child what behaviors are correct, what behavior is wrong. This is a transition to adolescence and preparation. Calm attitude can constrain the child\'s experiments, no harm to children on sexual awareness and interest in the future.
