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9.3.11

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Many parents on several months of endless crying baby fresh, there are many mothers experiencing the trouble and helpless. Doctor on the explanation of the phenomenon is usually--intestinal colic. Here\'s some updated perspectives on the intestinal colic, intestinal colic and how to identify specific methods, let you and your baby face when it is no longer worried!


Baby 2 months, has suddenly become very recently and crying, crying and very sad, especially at night when most frequently. I also found this crying slowly developed a fixed pattern: crying reduced during the day, and it is easy to soothe; night crying gradually increased the number of times, strong, and even appears every night. Under the helpless, I had to take him to hospital for examination, the doctor told my child good health, intestinal colic crying should be relevant, this is a normal phenomenon, there is no right. But children suffering the way, I still worry, why he will gripe, how to cope with it?


Intestinal colic child why there will be?


Intestinal colic strictly speaking is not a disease, but typical of neonatal common symptoms, there is no specific reason. The most obvious manifestation is the cry of the child occur regularly due to abdominal pain, especially at night, will last about 30 minutes at a time. So some people call it \"abdominal pain at night\", \"three-month abdominal pain\" and \"paroxysmal crying.\" Intestinal colic usually no treatment is required, in addition to nervous parents, and no adverse consequences. In fact, some researchers simply denying this colic exist, that it is just an extreme manifestation of neonatal cry. The word used here is because parents neural reacted, if your baby cries every night, and a not very scientific term can also help you survive the depressed you will face two or three months time. You will have to accept this fact and try to make baby do not cry you can think of all the methods--although only a short-term effect.


Help babies survive the intestinal colic stage the best attention to the following three points:


1, wants to deal with intestinal colic, to be discharged on the misunderstanding of it.


Look after the baby is very tired, if the child because the intestinal colic and crying more than certainly will let parents find it difficult to cope with. In the case of aetiology and response could not be found, you may listen to some rumors: intestinal colic baby is because feeding so full or not too hot or too cold, nutrition, milk, milk flow too fast or too slow, allergies, hernia, appendicitis, gall bladder problems, and his mother exhausted when breastfeeding, and so on. In fact, this interpretation there are many mistakes: If the above is one of the causes of abdominal pain, so why question appears in only one day after breastfeeding? And when you give baby breastfeeding, it is not possible only at the time of one hour is in a special way, and if the baby is ill, those diseases can not only fixed times of the day appeared if mother causes fatigue is a cause of colic, so why question when Dad or nanny took turns to bottle feed the same will happen.


In fact, the growth of intestinal colic baby is a normal phenomenon in the process. Although there were no effective remedies, but it will go away within a period of time. So don\'t see it scary, patiently stayed with baby through this painful time, to appease him is a wise choice.


2 performance of the intestinal colic, which is distinguished, which are not can be symptomatic resolution.


The following list will help you identify which behavior is intestinal colic baby\'s performance. If bearing part meets, part of the baby does not meet, you still think of him as a gripe, then you will find caused by colic crying can easily put up with.


If your baby has the following behavior, then he is intestinal colic:


Baby milk in the evening or night cannot be calmed down, and once stopped milk began crying and even cried herself to sleep, cry, less than half an hour will wake up.


Babies just cry, also shouting, leg to leg above the stomach, like pain unbearable.


All of appease good as are only in a minutes within effective, children may because sucking you of nipple and appease pacifier and stop cry makes, let you think found has appease of method, but immediately cry makes and began has; gently shake he also will makes he stop cry makes, but also just in several seconds within effective; gently rubbing wipe he of small belly belly also can let he miracle as to stop cry makes, also also cannot lasting.


Once you break the terrible cry, baby will shake with SOBs, until the next cry began.


Crying as a whole process will take at least an hour, or even three or four hours, end to toss to midnight.


These similar behavior is repeated at the same time every day, and never appeared in other time.


If your baby like that, then he is not the abdominal pain:


Baby milk in the evening or night cannot calm down and cried for a while and muttered for a while and finally went to sleep, but only muttered without shouting.


Cry of the baby while the larger, also push of the leg to the stomach, but crying differences and other times not.


You can appease have gradually stopped crying children in half an hour. If breastfeeding or appease pacifier can let baby stop cry, so is he hungry has or need sucking; any a appease of method up has role are indicates that he no abdominal pain; if light took baby back let he hiccups can makes he sleep, that is he by wind has, also not intestinal colic; if embrace baby, shook cradle or touch he can let he quiet down, so is he was alone or too had tension and difficult to sleep.
Once you have interrupted his cry, he will quiet down, until you put him back on the bed.


Cry process within half an hour, before crying again he will sleep or pleasure stays on for 15 minutes. For you are unlucky

One day, but it\'s not baby abdominal pain.

This occasional crying may occur at any time of day or night, maybe a hard nut to crack but was not caused by abdominal pain.


3, \"treatment\" intestinal colic, to relax.


Here, we advise parents who, on the intestinal colic baby, you must not blame and complaining, don\'t worry baby, keep not bat an eyelid as possible frame of mind. Because not you brought to the baby suffering about how to stop the pain you can do about it, you can prepare for the coming bad days.


Experts suggest that when an intestinal colic occurs when baby, can reduce pain by changing his diet. Children eat the formula, change to another brand to try; breastfeeding children need mother type many transform their consumption of dairy products. Even if those recommendations regarding how to treat baby\'s abdominal pain without help, you are not going around looking for such, or bring your baby to try alternative treatment methods. As for intestinal colic baby, which is basically no solution.


In addition, you can also try a variety of appease method may ease your baby\'s pain. Such as holding shake as he walked, give him a pacifier or nipple sucking MOM let him, rubbing the small stomach tripe. If these methods work, babies crying time is relatively reduced, you can soothe your circle. At the same time, you\'d better take care of the more other aspects of life in order so that it can cause intestinal colic and crying in your baby more than enough free to appease him. For example, housework to allow someone else to do, or simple processing; home phone calls to answer, with the baby for a walk, so that children and adults relax; put some music to listen to, let children transferred out of the attention away from the pain, but also let you relax. Remember also: while this may indeed be terrible abdominal pain, but it will not hurt the baby, and up to 12 weeks or so.