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9.3.11

Babies should kindergarten

Wen Wen and Jia Jia is in the same year with the small partner of the month but not the same day, mother of two children and mother in the same units. By Grandma ailun usually look, Jia-Jia and nanny together. At the age of 2, mother put the baby to the kindergarten. Ailun Grandma does not agree, said as small children to make a tearful scene in kindergarten, just have a hard time. Ailun mother flip books, and saw experts suggest children after age 3 to kindergarten to adapt faster, so he agreed to Grandma\'s advice. A year passed quickly, ailun and Ka Ka go out to play when Ka Ka significantly stronger language communication and social interaction skills of some, and some people asked: \"the child (Jia-Jia) than her (ailun) is one year older, right? \"Ailun mother after listening to the heart of acid, in fact, she also know Ka Ka since kindergarten it made great progress, their babies looked weak, but is cut off of others have said. She was a little regret: do ailun could catch up with Ka Ka? Is when she should be sent to the kindergarten? Kids getting more out of love at home, should she do the benefits of development, there is no more?


Comments on:


Baby before 3 years of individual differences are large, the life of a family environment differences are large, and that kindergarten education is not part of compulsory education, it is difficult to say baby before 3 years across the Board on the kindergarten, also is not kindergarten.


From the normal speed of mental development, a major change occurs after the age of 2 baby, is the ability to stand and attachment objects (mainly mothers) after a period of isolation, getting used to get along well with little friends and teachers, so the baby is 2 years old can accommodate day centres.


But just 2 years old baby also weaker on the ability of daily life, and the psychological pressure of the temporary separation of attachment objects are large, so new admission of 2 year old baby separation anxiety to some strong, and time is longer.


Therefore, recommend that babies between the ages of 2 and a half to 3 admission might be appropriate, at this time, baby growth relative to physical, life, and psychological maturity.


Recommendations:


At home with the baby, taking into account the comprehensive


If someone to look after the baby in the House and select family education, temporarily giving up to kindergarten education, comprehensive taking into account the following factors to help babies at home and has a good development:


· Comparative importance to early education the main caregiver, there are more advanced method of education and science education;
· Have full time with the baby out of the family, close with nature;
· Groups with a more appropriate, so that baby can interact with peer partners;
· Couple emotional harmonious atmosphere, family harmony;
· Management babies have more experience, both to the baby\'s safety and freedom, and let the baby have the rule consciousness.


Send kindergartens, homes co-culture


If you take the baby to the kindergarten, family or to do a homes total fertility, can guarantee the baby progress faster.


Kindergarten education and family education is the fundamental difference between, the former is the collective education and institutional life, which is personality education and randomness of life. For the healthy growth of the baby, and both are necessary. Baby in the two environments acquisition in a number of advantages, also learned some shortcomings, both of which are not strictly \"pure land\" and \"holy land\". Therefore, the baby brought back home from kindergarten is not appropriate behavior to help parents overcome, from families to kindergarten is not appropriate behavior is to help children overcome, because the baby is in a different environment to follow different \"rules of the game\". Of course, baby in kindergarten received some good behavior and good habits, parents try to tie, he continued practice and of the family.


Foreign young Park


United States: in the United States for mother maternity leave short, many of his mother when a child is very small when the baby to the kindergarten day care, or even full-time nursery. United States some private kindergartens accept baby ages more and more small, minimum into kindergarten child 3-4 months. United States specifications of the kindergarten on the recruitment of young babies will be strictly limited, including teacher-child ratio, number of children in each class, park facilities need to meet the requirement of a kind, the law provides.


Canada: Canada better for social welfare, many mothers are not as worried about work. Therefore, most of them will consider with babies more some time, not too eager to send babies to kindergarten. In General, have to wait for children to about 2 years old consider into kindergarten.


Sweden: in Sweden, solidarity\'s importance has been stressed, children from a very early age accept this kind of education. Almost all parents work in the family, couples 16 months of parental leave, children 1 year old would later be sent to the kindergarten, children growing up in the collective. In Sweden, people on the train children is assured.


New Zealand: New Zealand public kindergartens are generally recruit children over 2 years, some private kindergartens to recruit more than 3 months baby. New Zealand advocates child natural development, therefore does not teach children in kindergarten, and just let them feel free to play. Teachers are not too many demands on children, even the children of 3 and a half does not itself into the toilet, they will see is a normal thing.


Japan: Japan parent working pressure is very large, working more, so many families are sending their children very early into kindergarten. Smallest children enrolled in kindergarten can be as small as 3 months.