Two year old baby, going to kindergarten, September 1, from families to kindergarten, is the baby first step towards the community. Admission for children and parents, it was like a war. Children \"thinking\" you secretly worry about their parents – children adapt to life in the kindergarten? Teachers will not be like him? child and other children could get along? will be bullied sth
How can let the children happily go to school, prior to the kindergarten, parents should be ready for the which? Baby in the early admission of what is not adapted to the situation? How the school will arrange courses and activities to meet the arrival of the newborn? Young MOM and dad are Thinking It Through, I\'m afraid! Wang Shunmei, East China Normal University affiliated kindergarten Director and pureed fruit nursery yellow, xuhui district, Director, allow them to do for new admission of babies are reminded of the professional and intimate.
Parents prepare strategy: make positive cues and close collaboration with the teacher
Parents not to negative the child\'s psychological suggestion
Negative implied: \"you\'re not good, a couple of days will take you to the kindergarten. ”
Negative imply two \"that let babies play with it for two days, will come to kindergarten to collect the bones in a few days. ”
Some parents send their children prior to admission, often blow such a wind child ear or inadvertently said so, but this speech will have a very bad impact on children. In child awareness will think kindergarten was penalties in their place, so you can have a backlash before admission, the children.
And actively of psychological implied is is important of, China at National Taiwan Normal University kindergarten had do had such a small range investigation, to some just admission on special can adaptation kindergarten life, and does not cry does not makes of children parents for has some advisory, found these parents are some common of features, is in admission zhiqian are had said encourages nature words, such as some parents told children: \"baby this days really good, we had two days to kindergarten to\", or told children \"kindergarten in also has many with you as good of good baby, we to found they playing no better good Ah? \"Something like. Such encouragement has a positive impact on children.
Children are familiar with the environment, reduce anxiety
Recommended that parents in front of the Park, taking a walk near the kindergarten can take the child to the school activities, if kindergartens allowed, can also be played to venues in the Park, suggesting that children \"there are lots of fun\", \"good to do kindergarten after the baby\" and so on, so children at general admission, will reduce the sense of strangeness and not adapted to the new environment.
Attention to the teacher before the admission of home visits
Many kindergartens in the child zone will be arranged before the teacher-site visits, this is good opportunity for parents, children and teachers to communicate. Parents be sure to schedule time, and make sure that you let your children at home, let the children to understand the teacher as soon as possible. 果果 kindergarten teacher request home visits to understand such as length of child sleep, sleep is not particularly fond of holding things, is still in diapers and other, parents despite vocal at this time.
Full trust of kindergarten education to alleviate child anxiety emotion
Child to kindergarten will experience a period of adaptation, some children admission on the first day is also a lot of fun, but second and third days do not want to go to school in tears. In fact, this is a natural phenomenon, the child is still relatively fresh on the first day, wait for the next few days \"responses\" himself to an unfamiliar environment, it must have been crying. Parents try not to have too much speculation at this time, but will try to believe kindergartens, kindergarten in front of the children like it, so the children will like like kindergarten, the teacher.
Special reminder
Learn to \"cruel\"
After some parents send their children to kindergartens, children cry is heard is not assured, we hid in the corner, behind the door, window and others come to see in the Middle, this child\'s crying time is extended, the number will increase. Parents not because the child crying and \"three days fishing, liangtianshaiwang\", otherwise, the children will know if you cry you can not go to the kindergarten.
Freshmen admission early
Admission of children especially hope that parents pick early, experience and their parents comfort, otherwise, the child will have a lonely, lost, or even forgotten feeling, makes children more afraid of the kindergarten.
Baby adaptation strategy
Baby possible 2 species not adapted
Case, fear of strangers and unfamiliar environment
And Xiaoyun obviously just a kindergarten, some \"unusual\". It\'s easy to make, cried muddled, Xiaoyun is too quiet, previously enjoyed playing games at home, are not interested in, is always a person sitting in the corner, thoughtful manner.
Countermeasures: most kids meet strangers and unfamiliar environment, usually not suited, but reflected the behavior may vary greatly. Some children cry, emotional, some children seem unusually quiet. For emotional children, teachers and parents will particularly pay attention to, to meet their requirements in a timely manner. But for unusually quiet child, parents and teachers tend to ignore, thinking that children \"very obedient\" is not attention. In fact, such a \"good\" children are often not adapted to the new environment, just because you know that \"even crying, MOM and dad will send its own kindergarten\", stop \"resistance\", but still not happy, or fear of strange environments, if neglected, mental growth wants to be a disadvantage. For unusually quiet child to teachers and parents to pay special attention to.
Second, could not sleep, eat rice, easy to get sick
Round and eat special sweet sleep at home in peacetime, but just on the kindergarten on completely changed.
To NAP time on crying, appetite is very bad, appetite one-second less than usual, and a few days after fever was ill.Responses: child sleep prevention awareness particularly strong, especially for the strange environment, no parents around kid, particularly before going to bed crying, which is usually used to say \"sleep\". At the same time, due to the kindergarten food and home tastes differ, and cancelled the feeding patterns, so children in kindergartens often eat very little, not even eat. This is quite normal at the beginning stage. In General, children do not want to NAP, kindergarten teacher will gently touch a child\'s forehead, let the child to be quiet until the sleep. As for the children to eat is not much, parents can prepare some food for the children to the kindergarten, when a baby from a good care of small environment after entering a collective environment, he has a great deal of change in the yinshiqiju habits, is not on the physiological adaptation of feeling. Baby contact of children more, complex environment, exposure to various pathogens are many, prevalence is increasing the number of times. But the baby\'s body for a variety of exposure to the pathogen also produce antibodies, so his resistance will gradually increase.
