Work, housework, socializing sth Mothers are all busy, inadvertent or had no choice but to stay away from children. Busy is not an excuse, and miss the children will never regret at any growth stage.
\"One night, in order to quickly settle my 5 year old son to sleep, I roughly as he finished singing practice of \' bed \' song. However, the sons have loudly protested: \' MOM, you left out a small section of the Fox! \' In order not to let the children have been perfunctory feeling I important numbers: \' that is because the mother has a surprise for you, so sing faster than usual. \' So, I made an exception in the sleep of his time playing brought him to the courtyard, with him appreciate the bright moon and the stars that shine. Since then, that almost every night of our repertoire. ”
The mother of the \"inspire\" creates excellent close to the child\'s opportunities. If that only takes children travel makes a parent-child activities, then you would have been unfair. Children will desire simple surprises you, they will not ask you to always buy a gift or take them to the zoo a day, this \"event\" they meet two or three times a year. Children need just ten minutes a day for a walk with you, or a story before going to bed. You do not have to be \"superhuman powers\", reference article several foreign mother in \"squeeze\" parenting methods, communication between you and your child will be perfect.
First, the full use of the morning for 5 minutes
· When in the Sun to tell a story
Every child likes to listen to MOM and dad tell stories before bed, but have you thought of at the time the sun rises every day also gave his text to tell a story, or read a lot of fun? There is a wise mother is doing. The name is Irene\'s mother would give her 5 year old daughter to read every morning for a short or speak on the previous story. Although rarely more than 5 minutes a day, but every morning lying in their own special chair shared on this time it made them feel very happy, very close. Eileen happily said: \"my daughter feel that this is her best and most looking forward to the day time. In order not to let the time be \' discounted \' daughter has naturally not stay in bed. ”
·“ Not to do \"game
In order to mobilize the energies of children and child early in the morning close, Anji in the morning and she was 4 years old baby daughter to play with a self-\"don\'t do\" game. \"This is a very interesting game,\" Anji says, \"I better give her a big bowl of oatmeal, and then walked away, she said before \' before I come back, you can do anything, but not to drink the bowl of porridge \'. Sometimes I take all her clothes in front of her, and then also pretended to leave and said to her \' in before I came back not to own put on her clothes. But the result is often, and when I come back, she drank everything oatmeal, or neatly dressed. And then we looked at each other and smiled. \"Child psychology of little mobilize the enthusiasm of the children, both to achieve their goals, and child has the right of communication, the game is really a good way.
· Comb for her daughter a beautiful hairstyle
Lisa is a busy woman successfully, every morning she has to find the time for beautiful daughter combed a beautiful hair. Is this a small period of time, to a mother and daughter were both close and good opportunities for communication. \"In my bedroom every day the most comfortable place for my daughter and comb my hair, it is our most warm and intimate time in a day. ”
Second, in schools, with token prompts family
Many parents think, sending their children to school until the school has no chance and they close. MOM and Dad can also in the case of separate \"sharing\" Moment In Time.
· With love school
Every weekend, Mary and her son are or where they went to play in the yard to pick up some small stones. Usually Mary sending her son to school every morning, when saying goodbye, they picked small stones will exchange one weekend. These small stones will help separate the mother and when they think of each other. \"My son said that every time I see small stones on a backpack, he will think: mother at this time to do what? But when I go to work in every time put his hand into his pocket and touch the son of small stone, it would immediately think of my son. ”
· With photo school
When Anne\'s son started kindergarten when she started using family photos (even small and medium-sized dog photo) to decorate her son\'s lunch box. She imagined son opened the lunch box will be able to see the photos of these with a smile, son can help reduce the loss of left home alone in the school, not homesick. And this also made Anne feel her son to participate in school life.
After school three, sharing the good times
· And kids drink drink
Freedom writer Trish always tried in school children at the time and both children close to not delay their work. Her plan is to take children to drink a cup of drink. To pick up her child from school every day, on his way home, they will go to a coffee shop. \"I will give him a cup of fruit juice or a cup of hot chocolate, and then he does his homework, I can read some articles and my work-related. This is only part of our time. We can not only add some energy, but also to finish some work. ”
· Ran to greet school children
After school every day, when the child is about to go to the door, Sally will temporarily left alive in the hands of some exaggeration to run with open arms to welcome children and hug him in my arms. \"This little move always make my son happy to laugh, especially when I hug him in my arms and take hold of his rotation. \"It is clear that this action makes children feel his mother is very happy to see him home.
· And child play
Each time the children after school, with Roger and children
Play ball later. Roger age often play basketball in high school, and she had some passions roused by children playing together can also imperceptibly to tell children my mother used the ball very well, let the child for her proud. \"It can also let children feel, no matter how busy, and you also have to prepare dinner, MOM was always with him and also play in the first place. ”Four interactive exchange and dinner
· Children as you read
Do not think that let the child go away when preparing dinner. In fact, when you are in for dinner when busy, let your child help you do something that they thought it was good. You can let your children read for you, together with the children lost in myths and stories, your enthusiasm will make kids feel of fairy tales you all enjoyed this reading time.
·“ Tell parents what happened today \"
Although edge dinner talk not detrimental to health, but for most busy parents, only dinner time to talk to children. Selected as possible before or after the meal a child tell you today is what\'s happening at school. Let your child tell you he is praised by the teacher, or fight with his classmate. This time it is important to praise and educating children in a timely manner and let him feel that you are proud of him or let him understand that they have done wrong. Such exchange is indispensable.
Five, before going to bed manufacturing surprise
· Kissing game
When Jimmy settle when her 3-year old son to bed, she kissed her children will change the pattern. \"He likes to Butterfly kisses, when I use eyelashes gently swept his face when he always all chortled straight smile. Sometimes we will use the Eskimo Kiss was rubbing noses. We also tried to kiss of the European law, namely, kissing cheeks on both sides. Of course I have created many \' Jimmy \' the kiss method. Children have a sense of fresh every day. ”
· Guessing word game
When daughter was a baby, Monica often with daughter Pat on the back of her sleep. After the child grew, and she began using her fingers in her daughter write letters or numbers on the back of her daughter guessed. Daughter after the age of 8, let mother painted a number of related scenes and her life to guess, such as playing, playing the piano, hairdressing, etc. At the time of her daughter down, Monica to pass information with the hands, feet, or face, her daughter some encouragement. \"She likes this way, both of us are alone is through such contact to close, and communication. ”
· Answer questions
Before going, kids and parents can also be used to answer the question instead of the practice of bedtime stories. You can ask each other questions like: \"what is the most embarrassing thing you experienced? \"Or\" what adults tell you you think not? \"These problems, not only let discussions can also let more trust in each other more.
· Before sleep surprise
Susan like before going to bed in her child\'s pillow on small gifts, and then let the children found when sleeping, to his surprise. These gifts can be a popular comic, can be a bookmarklet or a new magazine. \"It will make children feel that you are in love with him, and always thinking of his. ”
