The first few days of the new school, kindergartens will become a child is sad in tears in front of the local. Crying, called shouts in the delivery of a powerful message: MOM, don\'t go! Don\'t leave me! Among them, few Asian kids most able to cry, cry from morning until afternoon; some to see other children crying and be \"infected\", also run out. Kindergarten was \"cry\", it was kind of scary.
Have a Japan boys, United States a few days, one sentence does not say, but crying is not affected in the least, use to describe themselves hoarse but also not too much. My Japanese level is limited to \"sit\" and \"Goodbye\" a few words, so he tears IU websites, I only while Woo blah answer, while doing a variety of strokes. Soon, I found his gesture of concern: I raised his right hand, do swear, guarantee: mothers off duty will come to meet you. Boys finally stopped crying, also raised his right hand. Oh, this is the \"common language\". After few days, every morning, when the boy was crying when her mother\'s sleeve and never give up, I raised his right hand, children from here see the hope and confidence, gradually stopped crying mother gone.
Compared with the children of Asian descent, had the unpleasant experience with less white family. Their attention on children\'s psychological adjustment in a new environment, let the children adapt. Such as when you choose kindergartens, parents and even grandparents with children to visit. When you visit, people will let the children play in the kindergarten shangbantian, himself aside look, see if children here is really like. The parent company of, children feel safe, more susceptible to all sorts of toys away, some will be releasing the parents \' hands, bold enough to sit down, access to a steady track, trains run; some parents will be asked and they play together: built large housing estates or spaceship, riding on Trojans, on the playground slide. Parents are often very patiently \"oblige\" the end. Some children even play was reluctant to leave, one United Kingdom mother daughter get 3 years of gelisi into kindergartens have used this approach. In his mother\'s company, small gelisi like so much in kindergarten, the first day of school, she was so excited, insisted on putting on new clothes and new shoes. And special leave mother sent her daughter, also do not ride, walk six blocks to kindergarten, accompanied by daughter enjoying this special moment in my life. This result-of-day when gelisi mother waved goodbye, I can clearly see on her face full of self-confidence.
Seems in end children of \"injury parting\", and quickly adaptation kindergarten of new environment aspects, Western parents is has many experience of, we may wish to participation about: such as on some adaptation ability poor of children, parents can early some time sent children to kindergarten, accompany children playing Shang a time then left; such as to and parents pictured of photo posted in children of drawer outside, let children in Miss father mother of when can see, this will has must of Shu solutions role; such as parents can first and children, and teacher together do some activities, as masonry building blocks,, and adults left 15 minutes to half hours, then returned to children side, number more Hou, children will was does not so fear, believe father mother will back received he of; then such as can to children some he like of things, as handkerchief, and towel, and there can and to soft of small cat small dog like of toys, let they always took in hand in.
Before going to the kindergartens, to the children about kindergarten videos is also a way of life, you can let him know what is about to start a new life. When some parents send their children to kindergarten, will align align with and children singing: \"my mother will be back, would return sth\" this song is the child of an \"assurance\".
Before parting, parents must stand up to the child the \"miserable b:\" eyes, goodbye to relaxed and happy, and turned to firmly when strong.
