The new school year, your child probably will for a new learning journey – for the first time in kindergarten, the first elementary school, junior high or high school for the first time for the first time. What kind of problems or challenges that children face? Parents how to guide children in the face of these new problems?
A baby in the family early admission
Early childhood education experts had proposed: kindergarten children on second weaned, its more difficult than the first weaning.
Many may occur does not apply
When General child admission at the beginning, appears different level of anxiety, and many forms of expression, the most common is crying. Some cry give up a day or two, some will last a month or two, depending on the child\'s character and feeding patterns, usually more outgoing character child slightly better.
In addition, some children will show strong rejection of the people except the family and the environment, and even vent dissatisfaction in hunger strikes and other forms.
While some children will show attachment to familiar items, such as mother\'s clothes, their quilts.
Also some children appear false physiological diseases caused by psychological, hoping to escape the kindergarten.
Parents talk about admission
\"Daughter leaves soon became yucai kindergarten Manager baby\" mother said mantle, to send their children for admission into a skill, that is, simply, the more you could not bear children, the children the more cry hard. Before enrollment, she also made preparations, such as telling children nursery toys than at home, began very early to let his daughter to kindergarten, and interested in quickly on a new life.
Jiangan district Madam Wu\'s daughter yagubuxu would also become Manager of the children. Wu said that she \"intimidated children is different from some parents, she often said:\" If you misbehave, I won\'t take you to the kindergarten. \"Such children in kindergarten is considered a very good place, subconsciously produce a favor.
Intimate Tip: parents avoid doing five things
1. Bogey put it down to their children.
2. Taboos on speech to \"take you to the kindergarten\" frighten children.
3. Bogey to children to open such as \"I\'ll pick you up\", \"I first come to meet you\" empty promises.
4. Bogey family take turns to research on kindergarten class.
5. Taboos not adhering to send their children attending.
Families with children in elementary school
From kindergarten to enter primary school, the child goes through a period of adaptation or long or short, you need to fully cooperate with parents and schools to assist primary school freshman navigated the adaptation period.
· Eliminates \"terror school\" psychological
Visit a visit take children to school, reducing the sense of strangeness and fear. Information can also be passed to the children: parents and grandparents were in schools becomes more and more intelligent, children learn to power.
· Let children learn to sit
Compared with the kindergarten, primary school classroom more about order, constrained by the words and deeds will be subject to discipline children bear the brunt of that to be able to sit down to live. Parents can keep the children quiet training such as painting, reading, watching TV, do not have to adhere to the thirty or forty minutes, you can start from 10 minutes, a little extension.
· Teach children to express inner thoughts
Some children know what class should not go to the bathroom, so even urgent dare not express to teachers, resulting in bitter themselves also make a joke. Some children feel no eat, rather than teacher description of intent, led to misunderstanding between teachers and parents. Children express their true feeling of the Church, can be said is that each required course for parents.
· Learning appliances, not tanduo
School children, the concept is not very clear on a number, parents are learning more, children do not know what is their parents found fewer once asked, the child may answer, \"is xx\" or \"is stolen by XX\" which led to conflict between parents.
In addition, parents need to stress to the child safety with a pen, do not take the pen tip on to others or yourself.
· Children their own clean up bags
Pack their schoolbags such Affairs, parents had better not to intervene, encourages children depending on the course need to prepare the necessary books, stationery, and so on.
· Develop independent thinking habits
Before you make the job, asking a child to prepare, in advance go to the toilet, drinking, and then write operations in a quiet environment. Many parents like to \"accompany\", this would make the children dependent on psychological. Recommends that parents give their children a separate space, ex post facto checks do not point directly, but rather to let the children thought in one direction.
Intimate Tip: parents seven taboo language
\"You did not obey will take you to school, let teachers discipline you. ”
\"Sit for school one day, you naughty, you see Oh. ”
\"Sit, the teacher will punish your station. ”
\"Today is there a teacher caught? ”
\"Is there a student in your class bully you? ”
\"Did you eat, food very good? So do evil! ”
\"Why are you this stupid, this is not innocent. ”
